Monday Morning Art School: quit wasting time

We all have dreams weā€™re deferring until the timing is right. We believe, in our innocent way, that we have all the time in the world to do them. But we donā€™t.

Belfast harbor, oil on canvasboard, by Carol L. Douglas

I had intended to write about fast, efficient color mixing, but you can read about that here, or here. This has been a weekend of wild upheaval for me. Its takeaway message has been that life is ephemeral and precious. If youā€™ve always wanted to do something, I suggest you start now, because none of us are promised tomorrow.

Cat is a young lady Iā€™ve known of since she was an undergraduate art student at a small college in Alabama. Her pastor was my friend John Nicholson, and he thought weā€™d like each other. We became Facebook andā€”laterā€”real-world friends. I knew that she and her husband were not childless by choice. I prayed for her when she underwent treatment for the disease that caused her infertility.

Spring on Beech Hill, oil on canvasboard, by Carol L. Douglas

As long year stretched into long year, I accepted that their calling was not to be parents. After all, theyā€™re smart, caring people who will serve humanity no matter how thatā€™s shaped. But I couldnā€™t help musing about all the babies who are born into neglectful homes when other people want children but remain childless.

On Saturday Cat posted that sheā€™s pregnant. The babyā€™s due in January. ā€œWe serve a God of miracles- I cannot begin to tell you how He is so faithful. If you are still waiting on His timing, please donā€™t give up. Your miracle is coming,ā€ she wrote. I was humbled by the faithfulness of God, who answered their prayers when Iā€™d given up on them.

Three Chimneys, oil on canvasboard, by Carol L. Douglas

Last February, our old friend Kathy died of COVID in Buffalo. Iā€™ve known Kathy and her husband Jim for decades. We watched their daughter Amy grow up and have a daughter of her own. If you havenā€™t been touched personally by COVID, let me tell you: it is an ugly beast. Kathy had it, Jim had it, Amy had it, and their granddaughter had it; everyone recovered except Kathy. She wasnā€™t old or morbidly obese, so why she died and they did not is another of those impossible questions.

Iā€™ve kept in contact with Amy on Facebook since I moved from Buffalo. Last week she posted that her daughter Erika had finished the 9thgrade with honors. And then suddenly, without warning, Amy died. That was Sunday morning. She was just in her early 40s. I canā€™t even begin to process the cataclysm that has engulfed my old friend Jim and his granddaughter Erika.

Owl’s Head Fishing Dock, oil on canvasboard, by Carol L. Douglas

My faith teaches that Satan (Death) has temporary dominion over this world. That still doesnā€™t answer the question of why Cat has had a miracle and Amy had a disaster; thatā€™s an answer buried deep in their own relationships with God. But I do know that life is fleeting and ephemeral, and its ours to savor or squander.

When our kids were small, our friend Jan would invite us to stay in her cottage at Ogunquit. Jan had never married and was childless, but she loved children. Those vacations sparked my love affair with Maine.

Life goes on and we drifted apart. Iā€™d think of her as I drove up Route 95, but never picked up the phone to call her. Last year, I found myself in Ogunquit and decided to give her a ring. I was a few weeks too late; sheā€™d just died.

We all have dreams weā€™re deferring until the timing is right. They may be as simple as making a phone call, or they may involve travel, writing, or even learning to paint. We believe, in our innocent way, that we have all the time in the world to start them. But we donā€™t. The clock is ticking.

Saying goodbye

Portraits of the dead are difficult, but theyā€™re also satisfying and meaningful to paint.
Reunited with Jesus, by Carol L. Douglas

Occasionally I have the opportunity to do a portrait of someone who has shuffled off this mortal coil. These are the most difficult portraits to paint, because there are never good reference photos available. Youā€™re changing angles and planes, guessing their height and weight, and dealing with terrible flash or shadows. Yet these are the best photos the family has.

Itā€™s no wonder that they often feel overworked to me when Iā€™ve finished; Iā€™ve struggled to invent a structure from a snapshot. However, if Hans Holbein the Younger could paint his magnificent lost portrait of Henry VIII from a pattern, Iā€™ve got nothing to complain about.
This infant died after birth, and all his mother had was a very blurry snapshot. It’s, unfortunately, the only photo I have of the painting.
Despite the technical difficulties, these reflections on mortality are among my favorite subjects. Theyā€™re a comfort to the survivors, who struggle to find meaning in their own personal disaster. They force me to draw from my own painting and drawing experience. Can I draw a plausible hand or foot with no reference photo at all? Most importantly, theyā€™re thought-provoking.
Death is the deepest question facing mortal man. We all will die someday. Thatā€™s absolute. What will it be like? Where will we end up? Will we see our loved ones again? Will we work, or sing endlessly? (Will singing feel like work, or will I be able to belt out a tune like Kate Smith?)
The subject of this portrait passed away last summer, much too youngā€”my age, in fact. Her daughter-in-law sought a way of comforting her husband on the loss of his mother, of reassuring him that her final destination was, indeed, Heaven.
This is someone I knew very well: my sainted Aunt Mary, who died the day before her sixtieth birthday. It’s a portrait of her servant’s heart.
Iā€™d intended to concentrate on the figures and scumble a vague background. However, Iā€™ve been thinking about angels for months. Angels are not cute putti or disembodied beings. Theyā€™re vigorous workmen in the Kingdom of God. It seemed like a good opportunity to paint them and think about what Heaven might be like. My deep subconscious apparently thinks that itā€™s a bustling kind of place.
For those unfamiliar with traditional Christian imagery, hereā€™s some explanation: Jesus has a seat at the right hand of God because, in the Biblical era, that meant an honored guest shared eminence and authority with his distinguished host. But heā€™s relaxed enough to come down from his throne and welcome an individual to heaven, just as he was comfortable coming to earth to share our human struggles.
Only one person in this portrait is deceased. He’s dancing with his elegant and wonderful wife, in the Pennsylvania woods he loved so much.
The lamb on his seat-back is the Agnus Dei, the ā€œlamb of God who takes away the sin of the world.ā€ The figure to the right of God is the Recording Angel, mentioned by two Old Testament prophets. The orb in Godā€™s hand is not a strictly Christian symbol. Its origin is the plain round globe held by the god Jupiter. This became a standard symbol of power in the post-Roman world. It came into Christian iconography through the Salvator Mundi. Godā€™s outfit is quoted directly from God Inviting Christ to Sit on the Throne at His Right Hand (1645) by Pieter de Grebber. The floating cross on which the Throne of God sits is my own idea, although thereā€™s certainly ā€œnothing new under the sun.ā€
All this sounds very Catholic, and for good reason. During the time when Christian symbolism was evolving, the Catholic church was the only game in town. I was concerned that it would be too much for a modern client. It turns out that the recipient of the painting was raised as a Catholic. These will be familiar images to him. It’s just another example of how ā€œall things work together for good for those who love God.ā€

My tribe is a circus

Love more, forgive more, hug more, and say ā€˜I’m sorryā€™ more.

Along Kiwassa Lake, by Carol L. Douglas

Saturday threatened rain, so John Slivjak, Tara Will and Stacy Rogers wisely set up in a bandshell for the Adirondack Plein Air Quick-Draw. I was nearby.

It was not until I bent to fix my umbrella that I noticed a musician setting up equipment on the stage. John, Tara and Stacy just played through, like the professionals they are.
Aside from a little air guitar, John Slivjak, Tara Wills and Stacy Rogers didn’t let a performance distract them. (Photo courtesy of Ann Slivjak)
Friday had been a great opening reception and sale. Still, I had been settling into a bad mood all day. Being doused as I left Town Hall didnā€™t help. I am not prone to the black dog of depression, but I was questioning my life choices, feeling old, washed up and hopeless. I thought I might be getting a cold. ā€œYouā€™re just overtired,ā€ my husband consoled me.
Friends invited me to go out for a celebratory drink. ā€œNo thanks, Iā€™d rather drink alone,ā€ I groused.
Two weeks ago, my husband and I flew to Baltimore to pray with a friend. During Saturdayā€™s Quick-Draw, I got a text from his wife telling me that he was failing. At 1:30 PM my husband called to tell me that Emerson had passed away.
We were in the whirl of an art sale. There was nothing I could do but shut down my feelings and get on with the job. In our brief conversation, my husband told me heā€™d felt it was coming. I realized then that I had been given the gift of grieving in advance.
Tomatoes, my Quick-Draw from the Festival.
Emerson was a wise old bird. He looked to the state of his own soul rather than fussing at others about their choices. Thatā€™s the harder road. It means facing up to our faults, repenting, and resolving to stop our sin cycles. It requires terrifying honesty.
Itā€™s also the only way to be a light of the world. With so few of them around, I found it difficult to understand how God could call home such a powerful saint. Still, Christians get no special pass from the troubles of mankind. Weā€™re just given a powerful toolā€”graceā€”to deal with them.
ā€œDeath eventually will come for us all,ā€ said Emersonā€™s friend Mary Beth Robinson. ā€œWhat we do today affects the legacy we leave. This week perhaps we should strive to love more, forgive more, hug more, say ā€˜I’m sorryā€™ more, and simply try to make a mark for good in our little part of the world.ā€
Part of my posse, 2017: Kari Ganoung Ruiz, me, Tarryl Gabel, Crista Pisano and Laura Martinez-Bianco. All the bling was in footwear this year.
Meanwhile, the reception ground on. A woman asked me if it was fun meeting other artists. I laughed and explained that we are a small community who know most of each other from other events. Weā€™re like circus performers, a distinct tribe of people who labor in obscurity until the day we set up our tent show in your town. I treasure these friendships, and every event I do adds a few more.
The same posse in 2014, with the addition of Mira Fink and Marlene Wiedenbaum. We were younger and more stylin’ then.
Reminded of this, I spent the rest of the afternoon talking to my friends, catching up on their news. A few minutes after we finished, I was on the road again. I pulled over twice to wipe my eyes. I think it was the spruce pollen.

Goodbye, Old Paint

Max cheated Death so many times that when it finally came for him, I was unprepared.
In his element (water), as he would like to be remembered.
Max, my ancient, wheezy Jack Russell Terrier, finally passed away yesterday. Requiescat in pace, you old reprobate. I hate to admit it, but Iā€™ll miss you.
Max was atrociously oldā€”balding, bedsores, few working teeth, and unable to fully control either bladder or bowels. I said I would never be a nursemaid to a dog, but he was saved by his good humor. Heā€™s not unhappy, we would tell ourselves, and weā€™d get out the mop and bucket and clean up after him again.
Max was the Great Houdini at escaping death. At nineteen, he was frail but not sick. I thought that he might outlive me. Or, since he frequently caused me to trip over him, we might die together. His very kind vet, Dr. Carissa A. Bielamowicz, told me that this is true of the breed. They tend to die of simple old age, not illness.
It wasn’t until his late teens that he started to act like a normal dog.

He was never a good dog. We ended up with him because he wouldnā€™t stay home. He would trot off to ginger up the neighborā€™s dairy cows, or swim across the Erie Canal to chase cars on the state highway. ā€œThat dogā€™s going to get killed,ā€ my mother said, and arranged for him to move to our house. We had him for more than sixteen years.

He was constitutionally unable to walk on a leash. People were just too slow and incurious for him. He was an inappropriate hunter. His victims included several cats and an African Grey Parrot. He could catch songbirds in mid-flight. And, of course, he chased cars whenever he could slip out. He was fractious with the mailman and with other dogs, but his worst ire was for a neighborā€™s Jack Russell Terrier. He and Lucy snapped and feinted at each other whenever they met, which was often. ā€œJust like theyā€™re married,ā€ we said.
In his killing days, when he still had teeth.
Like many small dogs, he was fearless. He loved to pester Canada Geese and gulls, swimming out and snapping at them, unaware that he wasnā€™t a water dog. Once he tried that with a Mute Swan. It didnā€™t go well, but he was undeterred.
His fearlessness made him a great plein air buddy. Many times I camped and painted with him as my only companion. He would have died defending me. His last painting trip with me was last fall. ā€œDonā€™t fall in,ā€ I kept telling him, as he tore up and down the rock cliff chasing the tide. ā€œIā€™m not coming in after you.ā€
My studio will seem empty without his muddleheaded presence.
Iā€™ve had dogs all my life, but he will be the last. There are fewer places where dogs and people can roam unfettered. Dogs are great instructors when they can snuffle and burrow and show you the world through their eyes. Iā€™ve learned much about natural history from them. But leashed and fenced, they become a management issue.
Dog and boy, much younger then.
Max started failing again on Wednesday. On Thursday morning, he could no longer stand. His boyā€”my youngest childā€”sat with him for most of the day, quietly chattering with him. I took refuge in housework. ā€œCleanliness is next to dogginess,ā€ I told Max. He was in too much pain to laugh.
As he relaxed into his final rest, I realized just how much effort he had been putting into merely surviving. But he was a dog, and dogs never complain.

The Dog with Nine Lives

The Beggar of St. Paul, Carol L. Douglas, is a parable based on Watteauā€™s Pierrot, 1719. A younger Max was the model for the American dog who eats better than starving Africa.

While I was in the Bahamas my elderly Jack Russell terrier, Max, stopped eating and drinking. My husband, who professes to hate this dog, spent many hours tempting him with various delicacies. Nothing worked.
Jack Russell terriers are very long-lived. Our vet says the old man is nineteen. Since we got him second-hand, I canā€™t say for sure, but heā€™s slightly younger than our college-sophomore son.
In January, I thought for sure that Max was done for. I packed him up and took him to the vet to be put down. On the way, I stopped at the North End Shipyard, where I ran into Sarah Collins and Captain John Foss of the American Eagle. Neither had met Max before, but they came out to my car and said a kindly hello and goodbye to the old thing. When I got to the vet, they announced that Maxā€™s wound had healed nicely, and he still had a few more miles to go.
That wasnā€™t the first time heā€™d fooled me. When he was a mere lad of 17, I took him in because he was having trouble breathing and was bloated in the midsection. I was sure he had a tumor. ā€œHeā€™s getting awfully fat,ā€ the vet said. Oh, the indignities of middle age!
Max spends most of his working day in my studio.
But now he seems to be in renal failure. My goal is to let him slip away naturally, since he isnā€™t in pain and still seems to enjoy our company. To that end, I called the vetā€™s office to ask if they can help me when the time comes. Early March is no time to dig a hole here in the Northeast. They warned me that dying at home isnā€™t all itā€™s cracked up to be.
Jack Russell terriers are ferocious little beasts. Max has killed an African Grey Parrot, two cats and innumerable songbirds, which he could pluck out of the air in his youth. I never left him with small children until after his teeth fell out.
That ferocity made him an exceptional guard dog. I am used to traveling alone to paint, and would often bring him with me. Compact, he would sleep in a tent with me or allow me to stash him in a van overnight while I couch-surfed. He would stand guard while I worked in isolated places. Nobody ever walked up to me without him knowing.
The last time I took him along was to Boothbay Harbor last spring, which is when I realized that his judgment was impaired. ā€œI am not going in after you,ā€ I told him repeatedly, but he still took outrageous risks for such an old dog.
When the model didn’t show up at the Art Students League, my daughter Julia and Max volunteered. Kathy Gulrich captured his wriggling in a wonderful chalk drawing.
On Friday, I made meatballs. I slipped a bit of raw meat to my ever-present sidekick. I watched sadly as he sniffed it, and then in considerable surprise as he ate it. Ultimately, he ate four ounces of the stuff.
Since then, heā€™s been eating small amounts and drinking chicken broth. I am not fooling myself into thinking that the old geezer is going to survive much longer, but he always surprises me.
If youā€™ve ever attended an old person, you know that death is not predictable. You canā€™t schedule it. Perhaps our inclination to euthanize our pets blinds us to that reality. But where there is life, there is hope. Sometimes it takes a frail old dog to remind us of that.

A deadly inheritance

"Annunciation," by Carol L. Douglas. That phone call is like a nuclear bomb, only worse.

ā€œAnnunciation,ā€ by Carol L. Douglas. That phone call is like a nuclear bomb, only worse.
The work Iā€™d planned for today and tomorrow is off my slate. Instead, Iā€™m driving back to Buffalo for a funeral. Our oldest friendā€™s youngest child died of a drug overdose on Tuesday night.
Iā€™m not going to speculate on what happened. For one thing, I donā€™t know. But itā€™s a tragically common story in our age.
Parents like to believe they can protect their kids from making bad choices. To a degree thatā€™s true, but itā€™s not totally true. I donā€™t know a single kid who never did anything monumentally stupid, including mine.
Iā€™ve known three generations of this family. None of the usual bromides apply. When I say that the boy had ā€œevery advantage,ā€ Iā€™m not talking about just education or money; Iā€™m talking about love, stability, heritage, and a sense of his place in the world.
"Female," (detail), by Carol L. Douglas. Drug addiction is like a death grip on your head, man.

ā€œFemale,ā€ (detail), by Carol L. Douglas.
If youā€™re my age, you probably think of recreational drugs as pretty harmless. Back in the 1970s, many of us experimented with them. True, most of us aging hippies haveā€”more or lessā€”our faculties intact, but weā€™ve left a big mess behind.
We are fools when we look back on our youthful foibles through John Lennon-framed rose-colored glasses. Drugs are a curse on our childrenā€™s and grandchildrenā€™s generations. Deaths from opioids and their synthetic analogues have skyrocketed, according to the DEA. Heroin deaths increased 248% from 2010 to 2014. Heroin is more potent and less expensive than ever. Even pot is no longer the mild, friendly drug we once knew.
In the 1970s, the annual drug overdose death rate was fewer than 2 deaths per 100,000 people. In 2014, it was 15 deaths per hundred thousand people. As a cause of accidental death, it is now second only to car crashes.
And thatā€™s just the user side of the problem. On the other side is the violent drug war in our cities that disproportionately claim young black men.
When the Bible talks about ā€œvisiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and the fourth generation,ā€ it isnā€™t talking about transferring punishment (Scripture says that canā€™t happen). This boyā€™s parents never touched drugs themselves. They were so focused on their studies that they sat out the Swinging Seventies, making them a little puzzling to have at parties.
That verse says that sin itself, unless repudiated, will keep on reappearing. Our generationā€™s casual attitude toward drugs has morphed into a scourge ravaging our young people. Both the middle-class kids who overdose and the ghetto kids caught up drug violence are its victims.
When I argue for a closed border, itā€™s not to keep undocumented migrants out of the US; itā€™s to seal off the major heroin routes into the US. But even that wonā€™t work as long as thereā€™s demand.
"Chris in Pink," by Carol L. Douglas.

ā€œChris in Pink,ā€ by Carol L. Douglas.
Since my own misspent youth, my generation has cheerfully torn away at the underpinnings of our culture. Marriage, work, faith and family have all been tossed into the great maw. Theyā€™ve been replaced by self-actualization and sensualism. Is it possible that this leaves our descendants feeling unnecessary, marginalized and devoid of purpose?
To a degree, parents can counter those messages, but the larger culture has a profound influence on our kids. Thatā€™s why there are so many upright old ladies in urban churches mourning the loss of their sons and grandsons in the drug war.
For now, kiss your children and tell them you love them. One never knows what oneā€™s tomorrow will bring. And pray. Pray like crazy.
As for me, in the words of my former gangbanger friend, I feel like punching them drug-dealing mā€”rfā€”rs in the throat. Nobody expects a left hook from a little old lady.

Algonquin mystery

"Algonquin Rocks," by Carol L. Douglas. I was  most interested in the flaming soft maples. Lakes? I've seen a few this trip.

ā€œAlgonquin Rocks,ā€ by Carol L. Douglas. I was most interested in the flaming soft maples. Lakes? Iā€™ve seen a few this trip.
One of the enduring mysteries of the art world is how Canadaā€™s great artist, Tom Thomson, age 39 and an experienced guide and woodsman, died on Canoe Lake in Algonquin Provincial Park.
A century after his death, the facts are limited. At noon on Sunday, July 8, 1917, Thomson left his cabin to fish. That afternoon, Martin Blecher and his sister Bessie saw Thomsonā€™s canoe floating upside down as they motored on the lake. They did not stop to check it, saying they thought it was another canoe that had slipped its moorings.
On Tuesday, guide Mark Robinson was called in to search for the body. He and others checked portages and inlets for the following week.
Tom Thomson's guide license. He was an experienced woodsman.

Tom Thomsonā€™s guide license. He was an experienced woodsman.
The news of the missing artist spread rapidly. ā€œMr. Thomson is very well known here and everyone will hope that he will be found safe and well. The other alternative is not pleasant to consider but should it be found that he has been drowned, Canada will have lost one of her most accomplished landscape artists, and a thorough gentleman,ā€ wrote the Owens Sound Sun.
Thomsonā€™s body surfaced on Monday, July 16. Robinson and Dr. Goldwin Howland, of Toronto, examined it. They found a bruise on the left temple about four inches long, ā€œEvidently caused by falling on a Rock otherwise no marks of Violence on Body,ā€ wrote Robinson. The decomposing body was quickly buried at Canoe Lake.
One of the countless streams that form the roadways of Algonquin Provincial Park, a place that promises you backwoods peace and solitude.

One of the countless streams that form the roadways of Algonquin Provincial Park, a place that promises you backwoods peace and solitude.
On Tuesday, the coroner arrived from North Bay and assembled an inquest. ā€œThere is Considerable Adverse Comment regarding the taking of the Evidence among the Residents,ā€ Robinson wrote in his diary. Almost immediately, Thomsonā€™s family sent a steel coffin and requested that his body be exhumed and sent home to Leith, Ontario.
That is where the facts end. Even his final resting place in dispute, with one group of people saying the undertaker balked at exhuming his remains and sent an empty casket back instead. Thomson, they say, is buried at a secret spot near Canoe Lake.
Was it accidental drowning, as the coroner decided? Was it manslaughter, as Mark Robinson came to believe? Was it suicide?
Martin Blecher was 26 when he saw the overturned canoe. He was the son of German immigrants, a quarrelsome, alcoholic recluse who told people that he was a private detective employed by the William J. Burns International Detective Agency in Buffalo. Robinson, who listed local war deaths in his diary, believed Blecher was a German spy.
ā€œI had heard that there was some ill feeling between Tom and some man in that region [Mowat]. It was somewhat casually referred to by someone at Canoe Lake possibly one of the Rangers, but as this was while we were still looking for Tom and I was still hopeful of his safe recovery, I didnā€™t at the time attach any serious importance to the report,ā€ wrote Thomsonā€™s brother George.
Was the man Blecher or someone else? Daphne Crombie, who was in Mowat that spring, remembered, ā€œTom and Georgeā€¦theyā€™d had a party. They were all pretty good drinkers, Tom as well. Well, they went up and had this party. They were all tight and Tom asked Shannon Fraser for the money that he owed him because he had to go and get a new suitā€¦Anyway, they had a fight and Shannon hit Tom, you see, knocked him down by the grate fire, and he had a mark on his foreheadā€¦Annie [Fraser] told me all this and also Dr. MacCallum. Tom was completely knocked out by this fight. Of course, Fraser was terrified because he thought heā€™d killed him. This is my conception, and I donā€™t know about other peopleā€™s. My conception is that he took Tomā€™s body and put it into a canoe and dropped it in the lake. Thatā€™s how he died.ā€
Why did Thomson need a new suit? According to Annie Fraser, heā€™d gotten local woman Winnie Trainor pregnant and had to marry her. After Thomsonā€™s death, Trainor traveled to Philadelphia to stay with friends, and rumors persisted that she was pregnant. She never married and was protective of his reputation for the remainder of her life.
I started painting Lake Huron in the morning but was rained out. It was a windy whippy day; I'll finish this in the studio.

I started painting Lake Huron in the morning but was rained out. It was a windy, whippy day; Iā€™ll finish this in the studio.
Years later, Robinson elaborated on his finding of the body: ā€œHis fishing line was wound several times around his left ankle and broken off.  There was no sign of the rod, his Provisions and kit bag were in the front end of the Canoe when found. The lake was not Rough.ā€
ā€œā€œYou might interview Martin and Bessie Blecher but again be careful. They possibly know more about Tomā€™s sad end than any other person,ā€ he added darkly.
Even in Algonquin, solitude and peace are an illusion.